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Have you ever felt unacceptable? Have you ever hated being in your own shoes? How about feeling ugly? You enter the group and all of the go agitated and shush themselves - How does that feel? Unworthy ? Unfit? woeful? Tiring? Unloving?
Well, this is the blog where we acknowledge the rusted parts of our personality and approach with love to heal us. Remember, Love is and it will be the paramount of all the remedies. So, pretty stranger, even if you feel lost, or not good enough - we embrace you with love, we treat you with care, You don’t need therapy you need Love. So, after addressing today’s goal, let's get working, Ease yourself, nobody is judging you, nobody is hurting you - we love you. Hushhh… Easy we go today.
When you surround yourself in a herd, it's very patent that you’ll be slammed with the stereotypes. Be at work place, at school, among peers, in a market, around your family, anywhere you go - You are going to get noticed, evaluated and judged. Then how is it that some of us manage to be the adorable ones with the ever so shining charm they carry. How is it that some of us are remembered and laid as idols, how is it that only a few get what they want? Why is that no one feels like sharing with you? Why are you left alone?
How can you change your bad reputation in school? How can you be more approachable at work places? How can you be charming? How can you woo the people around you? HOW CAN YOU CHANGE THE NEGATIVE TRAITS ?
Try changing your behavior.
When you start anything, You need to appraise your determination. You need to counter question your desire, to evaluate just how much and why you desire that thing. Easy laid, You wanna be a doctor, Before going on how to be a doctor - ask why do you want to be a doctor? Got that?
So let’s do the drill, first things first : why do you feel the need to change your bad reputation?
Answer that question then you can try and blend in with the following steps as to how to do it. Here are the most effective way you can change your undesirable qualities and set examples :
Start with a smile. All good things are positive and approachable, what better way to approach someone than A beaming healthy smile. No, No I am not talking about stretching your lips wide and forcing a smile, Come on You’re not in a family picture! No not that ‘stud’ smile either, What? You wanna get laid or something? I am talking about a gentle courtesy that is urged by your subconscious and displayed on your face. Smiling is easy when it comes from the heart. Smile. And if you can’t smile - well then try Nature, a pet, a diary, charitable or volunteer work - It will boost your sense of self and paint your heart with the colours of euphoria, then you won't feel the need to push a fake smile, as your lovely hearty smile will steal the show!
Eat healthy. The food you eat influences the personality you brew, change it. Don't chew those gums, don't drink cokes all the time, no pizza's, no junks, try and grab something healthy. The more veggies you go for the healthier your belly will feel - your belly happy is equal to you happy, Otherwise remain stuck clogging the toilet after having that unhealthy load of cheese
Tidy yourself. It's been so ridiculous that these bratty kids think being messy and untidy is cool. I mean come on you stink go get a fucking shower. Iron your clothes, look presentable. Forget about people, you'll feel lovely yourself. You wear something comfortable, corks and you feel so different, so neat. Changes are good, you deserve good changes, try them pretty stranger !
Stop masturbation. If you do, then try maintaining streaks. As when you're in a habit of pleasure, your subconscious mind peeks at not so approachable places when you are in public, which might make the female crowd consider you for a douchebag. Don't do it. You wanna shape your personality or deteriorate it? Besides, masturbating a lot has its necromancies too - You feel dark, you play sex before your eyes to every other person you meet, you get robbed of creative ideas, you have no energy, you feel guilty of not sticking on No Fab. Come on, you’re better than that, try you’ll get there.
Start with a sorry. It's not weak to say sorry. It's bold and brave. The question is, are you? Now don’t go about this rubbish, “Real men/ Real women don't say sorry”! Shut the fuck up, and stop being a prig. You are better than that. Bow down and be bold enough to welcome your flaws, don’t marry denials.
Compassion is the king. You can't be empathetic towards other people, you can't be acceptable in their hearts. What? You plan on going to hell? Sure do. You won't be needing compassion there anyways. Btw it's humanitarian to show empathy and compassion. You try being a little gentle and see how people open up to you. Everybody wants love, it’s just that we’ve lost the hope of ever receiving it. You try it mate! A simple, “Hey are you okay? You want something” does its trick pretty impeccably !
Stop bullying. If you're one of those dumbasses who picks and pokes their loser noses in others underwear, don't. It is pathetic and petty. Raise your standard. Maintain decency. I just talked about empathy and humility for Jesus' sake!
No BS during lectures. When a teacher or any authoritative management is trying to pull a difficult topic in class or session, and you crack jokes to look cool, you end up looking like a zero class dumbfuck. Don't waste your energy on being the clown. Preserve and pour it in things you adore. Try the energy in things that leave you in awe, which is a good segue to the next point.
Adopt culture. A culture is not just a religion, it's a bit deep. It’s a regime you love believing. So, what’s the wait for? Be your own Jesus and create some pacts, adapt reading, learn things - anything that puts you at ease.
Volunteer. Go a little extra mile to be there for someone. Be a little healer for someone stuck in jade. You just need the language if Love to do that scared soul with panache, trust me You can do it! You can be better!
And there you have some of the best leads to try. The top 10!
You know things will be effective if
You do them without expectations and
To please yourself and not others. I hope you get there.
You'll do fine, if you'll alter for yourself and not for people. All the best pal!
Credits: My Modern Met
A positive three liner I wrote to you pretty stranger :
The flowers of your garden will brew, Love.
Love that will be the drug,
Your soul is meant to woo the wounded.
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